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HOW PRESENT IS OUR PAST?

“Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery, today is a gift.” — Bill Keane

Our life is made up of a series of events to which we assign meaning. It is the interpretation we give these events that defines how we see ourselves, who we are, what we do, and what we are capable of achieving. Have you ever heard the phrase “we are meaning-making machines”? We are constantly on the lookout for clues that validate and confirm the interpretations we’ve made. These interpretations were mostly formed in early childhood and often follow us unquestioned.

So, it’s not the actual events that affect our lives, but the meaning we attach to them. For example, what someone decided bullying at school meant to them is what influenced their later life. What someone chose to believe about their parents’ divorce is what ultimately shaped their life journey.

As we grow, we keep seeking out evidence that supports these early interpretations — and that’s how our beliefs are formed.

So it’s our interpretations of life’s events that shape our reality. Only when we begin to distinguish between the event itself and our interpretation of it, and act with awareness (what is actually happening), do we realize that at any given moment, we have a choice: to react or to respond.

This shows how important it is to become aware of the meanings we’ve given to the significant events in our lives and the beliefs we’ve formed about ourselves and the world.

If we change those beliefs — especially the negative ones that keep us stuck in the past — we can begin to move toward our goals more freely and decisively.

Every choice we make from there on will directly affect and shape the paths we take in the future.

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